Mari kita bicarakan .

Move on .
Something that easy to say but hard to do .
Kira-kira begitulah kata orang-orang .
Jadi, apa lu juga setuju ?
Gue sih, 50:50 .
Karna sesuatu yang sulit, bukan berarti ga bisa . Yekan ?

Jadi gini .
Sebagian orang mungkin susah move on mungkin karna beberapa alasan .
Too much memories, maybe .
Too long together .
Or, can't open they hearts for someone new .
The point is, if you never try you'll never know .

Gue juga awalnya orang yang susah move on .
Hmm, mungkin bukan susah sih kata yang tepat, tapi butuh waktu . Butuh dukungan dan yang paling penting, ada distraction .

Distraction beda yak sama pelampiasan .
Distraction disini bener-bener hal yg real bikin lu jadi teralih perhatiaannya, secara ga sengaja .
Kalo lu sengaja nyari distraction sih namanya pelampiasan .
Jadi, tolong dibedakan hoho .

Waktu .
Nah, move on butuh waktu, tapi ga lama-lama juga -__-
Ga sayang apa buang-buang waktu buaat mengenang hal yang uda ga ada ?
Pikirin diri lu sendiri, jangan mengasihani diri sendiri . Itu ga baik buat kesehatan hati lu *asek haha

Dukungan .
Seseorang yg terpuruk dan ga bisa move on, akan semakin galau kalo sendirian .
Sepi nya makin berasa . Maka dari itu butuh dukungan, orang-orang sekitar kaya temen, sahabat harus mendukung buat bisa bikin kita move on .

Dan yang paling penting lagi adalaaaah, niat .
Kalo lu uda niat banget move on sih ga butuh waktu lama pasti uda bisa move on .
Gue sih mengambil gambaran dari diri gue sendiri .
Setelah gagal move on beberapa kali, gue mulai belajar, apasih yang bikin gue gagal .
Yaitu tadi, gue ga punya niat .
Gue terlalu sering mengasihani diri gue .
Gue terlalu lama meratapi nasib .
Padahal banyak orang yg mendukung, tapi ternyata itu aja ga cukup .
Lu butuh dukungan dari diri lu sendiri . Dan kalo gada itu, percuma juga sih .

Sampe akhirnya, gue ga sengaja dipertemukan sama seseorang .
Yang uda lama juga gue kenal .
Sesuatu muncul dari sana, sesuatu yang disebut banyak orang dengan 'rasa'

Rasa seperti "gue sayang lu"
Dan satu-satunya cara buat bisa sama dia adalah gue harus move on .
Sebenernya, gue sama dia tadinya sama-sama belom bisa move on . 100% .
Mungkin sekitar 60%, we try to move on .

Karna gue pengen banget dia move on 100% maka gue juga harus move on 100% .
Berhubung rasa "gue sayang lu" berubah jadi "gue pengen bisa terus sama lu" gue terus buktiin kalo gue bisa move on, and i did it . Im move on . 100% !

So, hal sulit bukan berarti ga bisa kan .
Dan gue yakin, dia juga bisa .

Naah, gue pun juga yakin kalo lu-lu semua juga bisa move on .
Tapi beneran move on yak, bukan topeng doang .
Karna orang yang ngaku move on tapi ga move on, itu kaya pohon plastik .
Uda plastik, palsu pula -__-

Dan, think again .
Saat lu ngaku move on dengan punya pacar baru tapi ternyata lu ga move on, mungkin itu saat yang tepat buat lu ngasihanin diri lu sendiri .

Mantan mah mantan aja, ngapain sih di inget .
Kalo lu bisa dibahagiain dan jauh lebih bahagia sama pacar baru lu, keep it !
Ga usa urusin masalah mantan se-freak apa dia ngeganggu kita .
Lama-lama juga bosen sendiri kalo ga ditangepin .

But, remember one thing .
If you still hurt (see ur ex with someone else, maybe)
Its mean you still care, and you still love .
So, don't tell you are move on if you don't .
Just, poor your self and go to hell because you can't move on even you have someone else .

Ok, mungkin cukup .
Selamat ber-move on ria yang lagi berusaha move on .
Kalo gue aja bisa move on, kenapa lu ga ? Yekan :')

Song 21: making memories of us :')

I'm gonna be here for you baby
I'll be a man of my word
Speak the language in a voice that you have never heard
I wanna sleep with you forever
And I wanna die in your arms
In a cabin by a meadow where the wild bees swarm

And I'm gonna love you like nobody loves you
And I'll earn your trust making memories of us

I wanna honor your mother
I wanna learn from your pa
I wanna steal your attention like a bad outlaw
I wanna stand out in a crowd for you
A man among men
I wanna make your world better than it's ever been


We'll follow the rainbow
Wherever the four winds blow
And there'll be a new day
Comin' your way

I'm gonna be here for you from now on
This you know somehow
You've been stretched to the limits but it's alright now
And I'm gonna make you a promise
If there's life after this
I'm gonna be there to meet you with a warm, wet kiss

Song 20: the way ❤

What we gotta do right here is go back, back to the top.

I love the way you make me feel
I love it ..

Say, I’m thinking ’bout him every second, every hour
Do my singing in the shower
Picking petals off the flowers like
Do he love me, do he love me not?
I ain’t a player, I just crush a lot
I ain’t a player

You give me that kind of something
Want it all the time, need it everyday
On a scale of one to ten I'm at a hundred
Never get enough, I can’t stay away

If you want it, I got it, I got it everyday
You can get whatever you need from me
Stay by your side, I’ll never leave you
And I ain’t going nowhere 'cause you’re a keeper

So don’t you worry, baby, you got me

I got a bad boy, I must admit it
You got my heart, don’t know how you did it
And I don’t care who sees it babe
I don’t wanna hide the way I feel when you're next to me

I love the way you make me feel
I love the way, i love it
The way you love me

Oh, it's so crazy you get my heart jumping
When you put your lips on mine
And honey it ain’t a question
'Cause boy I know just what you like

So If you need it, I got it, I got it everyday
Be your lover, your friend, you’ll find it all in me
Stay by your side, I’ll never leave you
And I ain’t going nowhere 'cause you’re a keeper

I make you feel so fine,
I hope you hit me on my celly when I sneak in your mind
You’re a prince to the public, but a freak when it’s time
Said your bed be feeling lonely,
So you’re sleeping in mine.
Come here, watch a movie with me,
“American Beauty” or “Bruce Almighty” that's groovy,
Just come and move closer to me
I got some feelings for you,
I’m not gonna get bored of
But baby you’re an adventure
So please let me come explore you
So let me come and explore you ..

Song 19: something about us

You got me love, the feeling's getting harder to hide
It's obvious, instead I keep it bottled inside
It's all because I'm waiting 'till the timing is right
Travel sights on random flights, you by my side
It's no surprise you got a man
But I see you giving mixed signals like you wanna take a chance
I'm trynna play my hand, you trynna stay true
When there's something about us I'd like to share with you
Cherish you, care for you in every way
I wanna be the reason that you smile everyday
Your style is amazing, I ain't trynna complicate things
But the way things seem I may be
Lately we've been way to close
Guilty grin when you can't say no
Maybe you need to let things go
When you're ready baby, let me know

I might not be the right one
It might not be the right time
But there's something about us I have to say
'Cause there's something between us anyway

It might not be the right time
I might not be the right one
But there's something about us I got to do
Some kind of secret I will share with you

I need you more than anything in my life
I want you more than anything in my life
I'll miss you more than anyone in my life
I love you more than anyone in my life..


nb:

uwaah .

Poem for friend

Being A Friend

We have something that holds us together

Something that made us both better

Something called being a friend

It makes the fun never end

And it helps me to know that when
I am down and blue

Because you’re my friend
I can count on you

We run through life without a care

Would anyone try to part us ?
They wouldn’t dare

And when the time comes for me to go

I really want for you to know

That even though my life has come to and end

I will never stop being your friend



(Trenda N. Sparks)